Dating an ex stripper
Miss J and I have been together over 5 years and neither of us have ever asked for the passwords to each other’s personal accounts.
We respect each other’s space and understand the importance of having things that are your own.
Now since he met me, all that has changed and his hyper sexualized pics and sayings on IG stopped . He has changed 360 and everyone who knows him can tell.
Now on his IG, majority of his pics are of us or he’ll have pictures of me. We are now saying the “L” word and I am in love with him. I will say, it is a bit unfair he waited so long to tell you.
For all the reasons social media is good, it can also land us in hot water.
I just feel like he’s living this double life and I don’t know about. Last night I did a little snooping and though there wasn’t any recent flirting going on… Should I really trust a person 100% when he was a male dancer and flexed his body all over the internet? I am not going to lie and say I don’t understand why he wouldn’t tell you right away; he has probably had his fair share of girls who have run for the hills after he shared his occupation.
I saw a lot of messages with random women and A lot of FLIRTING. Now onto your question, snooping through his social media is not going to give you a look into his soul.
However, for me my life got crazy enough in a month that I packed my shit in the middle of the night while she was working and left a note in order to avoid potential violence or scenes. Generally it didn't bother me that much, but there were some nights, when I was feeling really down/depressed and just wanted to be with her and I knew she was out, trashed in a sleazy bar taking her clothes off for other guys.
Wasn't the best and I wouldn't really recommend it.